r/BDSMAdvice

Updated 2026-10-24

r/BDSMAdvice is a Communities & Discussion community on Reddit with 490,616 members, ranking #271 of 6,870 in Communities & Discussion. A warm, diverse, inclusive group of friendly, knowledgeable, kinky people. Here to provide assistance, education & relationship advice. If you're looking for graphic content, or overtly sexual material, we're not the place for you. Have an issue in your kinky relationship? Want to know more about a specific technique? Think you have a fetish, but don't know what to call it? You're not alone. A

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How big is r/BDSMAdvice?

Created in 2015, r/BDSMAdvice has had over a decade to grow and is a large community by Reddit standards. Within Communities & Discussion it ranks #271 of 6,870 communities we track — the top 3.9% of the category by subscriber count. That puts it about 161× the median Communities & Discussion subreddit, which has 3,056 members. It is a work-safe community with no 18+ flag on Reddit.

For scale, the largest Communities & Discussion community we track is r/AskReddit with 59,202,832 members — roughly 121 times the size of r/BDSMAdvice. Reddit itself launched in 2005, so a subreddit created in 2015 sits in the middle wave of community building on the platform. Subscriber counts indicate reach, not activity — a large community can be quiet, and a smaller one busy. Open r/BDSMAdvice on Reddit to see how often people actually post before deciding whether it is worth joining.

Members490,616
CategoryCommunities & Discussion
Rank in category#271 of 6,870
Created2015
Category median size3,056 members
Content ratingWork-safe (SFW)

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