r/OkCupid

Updated 2026-10-24

r/OkCupid is a Relationships & Dating community on Reddit with 261,219 members, ranking #58 of 1,002 in Relationships & Dating. Welcome to /r/OkCupid — a place for all things online dating, critiques, advice, and the weird little community we've built here. ***** # ► Rules 1. **Do not post identifying information! Blur out the faces of anyone who isn't you. Censor any name that is not yours.** * You can post your own profile, but you cannot post anyone else's without [moderator's permission.](https://www.reddit.com/message

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How big is r/OkCupid?

Created in 2009, r/OkCupid has had over a decade to grow and is a large community by Reddit standards. Within Relationships & Dating it ranks #58 of 1,002 communities we track — the top 5.8% of the category by subscriber count. That puts it about 389× the median Relationships & Dating subreddit, which has 671 members. It is a work-safe community with no 18+ flag on Reddit.

For scale, the largest Relationships & Dating community we track is r/relationship_advice with 15,806,791 members — roughly 61 times the size of r/OkCupid. Reddit itself launched in 2005, so a subreddit created in 2009 sits in the early wave of community building on the platform. Subscriber counts indicate reach, not activity — a large community can be quiet, and a smaller one busy. Open r/OkCupid on Reddit to see how often people actually post before deciding whether it is worth joining.

Members261,219
CategoryRelationships & Dating
Rank in category#58 of 1,002
Created2009
Category median size671 members
Content ratingWork-safe (SFW)

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