r/datingoverthirty

Updated 2026-10-24

r/datingoverthirty is a Relationships & Dating community on Reddit with 1,171,456 members, ranking #19 of 1,002 in Relationships & Dating. A subreddit for folks nearing or over 30 who are looking for dating advice.

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How big is r/datingoverthirty?

Created in 2014, r/datingoverthirty has had over a decade to grow and is a major community by Reddit standards. Within Relationships & Dating it ranks #19 of 1,002 communities we track — the top 1.9% of the category by subscriber count. That puts it about 1,746× the median Relationships & Dating subreddit, which has 671 members. It is a work-safe community with no 18+ flag on Reddit.

For scale, the largest Relationships & Dating community we track is r/relationship_advice with 15,806,791 members — roughly 13 times the size of r/datingoverthirty. Reddit itself launched in 2005, so a subreddit created in 2014 sits in the middle wave of community building on the platform. Subscriber counts indicate reach, not activity — a large community can be quiet, and a smaller one busy. Open r/datingoverthirty on Reddit to see how often people actually post before deciding whether it is worth joining.

Members1,171,456
CategoryRelationships & Dating
Rank in category#19 of 1,002
Created2014
Category median size671 members
Content ratingWork-safe (SFW)

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