r/relationships

Updated 2026-10-24

r/relationships is a Relationships & Dating community on Reddit with 3,729,046 members, ranking #7 of 1,002 in Relationships & Dating. /r/Relationships is a community built around helping people and the goal of providing a platform for interpersonal relationship advice between redditors. We seek posts from users who have specific and personal relationship quandaries that other redditors can help them try to solve.

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How big is r/relationships?

Created in 2008, r/relationships has had over a decade to grow and is a major community by Reddit standards. Within Relationships & Dating it ranks #7 of 1,002 communities we track — the top 0.7% of the category by subscriber count. That puts it about 5,557× the median Relationships & Dating subreddit, which has 671 members. It is a work-safe community with no 18+ flag on Reddit.

For scale, the largest Relationships & Dating community we track is r/relationship_advice with 15,806,791 members — roughly 4 times the size of r/relationships. Reddit itself launched in 2005, so a subreddit created in 2008 sits in the early wave of community building on the platform. Subscriber counts indicate reach, not activity — a large community can be quiet, and a smaller one busy. Open r/relationships on Reddit to see how often people actually post before deciding whether it is worth joining.

Members3,729,046
CategoryRelationships & Dating
Rank in category#7 of 1,002
Created2008
Category median size671 members
Content ratingWork-safe (SFW)

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